Our evolution into the swinging lifestyle

[mtnjeeper]

Some years ago, near the start of our marriage, my wife and I confided about our early experiences and things we fantasize about. One of her earliest dates with with a guy that had always been really shy. She quickly learned that shy boys aren't always too shy to go for sex. Shy boy was horny, touching everywhere, trying to fuck her and she never suspected that feeling him get hard would excite her that much. Her shy date got lucky that night and more. She discovered how erotic a man's sexual urge for her can be. We made love while fantasizing about me watching her tickle a man's sexual urge like she did with that guy in high school. It remained a fantasy until I enlisted in the Navy.

In the Navy we were suddenly away from friends and family and surrounded by horny young sailors. We experimented at bars where she flirted and teased and at beaches. A seaman recruit, fresh out of the San Diego boot camp, gave us out first several actual experiences by fucking her in our Imperial Beach Apartment. He didn't know that I knew and, in fact, was sitting in our car watching and waiting for him to leave. Once we were in the lifestyle we realized that a lot of other Navy couples were swinging. We swapped with other couples, we checked out swing clubs, we indulges our curiosity about what people do at private home sex parties. My wife learned how to excite men and how another man can increase her own excitement and pleasure.

We have always been discreet with swinging. Our family and the majority of out friend would be shocked if they knew, but they don't know. I have been out of the Navy for a while now and we are back home but we are active swingers.