Faking orgasm - most hurting thing?

[hijokai]

I don't really know why, but I hate it when women fake orgasm! I think it is the most hurting thing. So.. women, why do you do it? it would be more fair to tell your partner about it in order to change smth and enjoy sex to the fullest!

ah! Nevermind! Just play along!! if a woman is a clever one, she'll tell you about it. if not, it's not your problem...

[funnyhunny]

I think I can tell when a girl is faking orgasm. well.. actually, you can feel it... and it's much easier to tell when a woman is familiar to you... also some girls dry up afterwards... they say that girls like to bluff but we are not so stupid!

[pooley]

my ex girl-friend sometimes faked orgasm, but usually I could tell when she tried to deceive me I must admit, the whole thing was very unpleasant... I think most men need women's orgasm, because it pleases them emotionally...

[HornyMatt]

well.. don't be a selfish person, think about the _reasons_! In my opinion there are some reasons why women fake orgasms. One is because they just want to stop an unpleasant sex session Smile sometimes (we must admit) sex is not great because of little foreplay or too much alcohol, so faking it is the quickest way to stop it...

Matt, thanks for your emotional support :-*

Actually I have to agree with hijokai in his original post. You're going to have other issues, sexual and relationship wise, if your woman feels the need to fake orgasms.

Now, if this is a casual relationship, go with the flow and don't squabble.

On the other hand, consider that YOU are the reason she is faking it. In my humble opinion, you need to give your partner permission to be able to say, "I just can't cum right now - let's just work on getting you off".

Face it, the male animal wants to fuck. End of story. The female animal wants to be wooed and intellectually stimulated. It's harder and takes longer to do the wooing stuff and easier to just fuck to get the guy off. Get your relationship in order so that it's OK to just fuck, then when you have time get out the candles and soft music and go down on her until she passes out from orgasm.

Pay now or pay later. But you gotta pay.

why the hell would I fake my orgasm? Either I like what is going on or I just tell my partner something to fix it. So I do not like to fake this stuff... what's the point in all that?

[Freezy]

If you suspect your babe is faking her orgas, then you arent being the kind of Lover that she deserves. Time to roll out your tungue and pull up your technique my friend . Spend a bit more time making her feel good and she will more than make it up to you.

[skillas44]

Sex isn't over until I've had an orgasm. In my opinion, the whole sense of having sex is reaching orgasm. So I do NOT like women who fake it! Maybe they just don't understand what they are losing every time...