Orgasm Problem
 

how to give a girl an orgasm if she never had one? Tried different positions as well as oral sex, but everything was in vain... she was very aroused and enjoyed sex but couldn't reach climax. please, help me!

You know only a small percentage of women have a physical reason why they can't achieve orgasm... and approximatly 25 percent of women achieve orgasm from penetration alone. The most common reason for not achieving orgasm is performance anxiety. So find some reasons why she may feel uncomforatble about sex... It may be embarrassing but it should be done to understand your partner better.

There is an old Chinese saying - man is fire, woman is water. The man's fire brings the woman's water to boiling. Think about it...

Be sensitive all the time. Don't forget that women need a much longer foreplay than men. Start by whispering sweet words in her ear and fondling her all over her body, but not in the genital area. Continue with soft sex pressing harder as she gets more aroused. Well if there will be the same result, I don't know. Women can enjoy sex even if they do not get an orgasm. Sometimes it's ok.

I'm multi-orgasmic 8) I stay aroused even after an orgasm. I can experience another orgasm if my partner keeps stimulating my genitals after, though my clitoris may be too sensitive at this time... so it's better to use indirect stimulation on my breasts, nipples or labia.

I've never reached orgasm and what of it? I enjoy the process itself and I like giving pleasure to my partner.

nevertheless, sex is pointless without orgasm... froggy, take my advice, find another partner! maybe he will help you understand better your sexual nature...

Incorrect!! There is much more to sex than orgasm. Enjoy the physical closeness and intimacy of being naked and vulnerable with each other. When sex becomes goal oriented, the sense of intimacy and connection can be lost. You partner may feel she is letting you down by not coming. Reassure her that you love her and love being with her and that all you want is to make her feel good. Sex can be enjoyable without orgasm!

I would suggest your partner see her physician to see if there is a physical issue that can be addressed... maybe it will help..

Just relax and have fun!! Everything will be ok after 3-4 month of regular sex!!

Here's my contribution... as for orgasm, if it happens it happens. If it doesn't, so what? If all she wanted from our relations was to have an orgasm she could just masturbate. You know how they say "the journey that's important, not the destination"