Playing with clitoris

Women, please tell us, how do you like your clit played with and what is your clit like? How do you tell a lover during sex that the technique being used isn't working and to try other things?

And I'd like to hear men's opinions too

Listen, guys, I'll teach you my unique technique! I learned to make my wife have an orgasm by pressing my lips together and blowing so that they vibrate against her clit. Pretty much the same as blowing a trumpet. I don't know why it works so good, apparently because low frequencies are best for caressing her clit. But you can vary the frequency by pressing your lips together harder or less as your partner wishes...

Thanks, nice technique! but my gf's clit is very sensitive she can't stand it when I play with it this way

[birk]

It occurred to me while reading this thread that clits and what a lady likes done to her clit varies a lot! So guys ask her what she likes and work this way! lol

[jife]

just don't forget to pull the skin on the clit backward and when it's completely open - suck it! not all the girls like it this way, but you should take it into consideration.

yep, but sometimes harder isn't better. if the clit is over-stimulated, it gets insensible and it becomes very hard for tour gf to cum, believe me.

Well the best way to make her cum is to start with light licking of the area around the clit then move closer to the clit licking it lightly up and down like you would an ice cream cone. Now lick in cirlcles a little harder and faster with an occassional sucking of the entire clit. go back and forth on the licking and sucking. now while sucking the clit lick it up and down pretty fast she'll cum hard. B