| all4scuba |
12-02-2005 08:00 PM |
totally depends on the woman. my wife is multi orgasmic. she loves for me to go straight for the clit as she spreads her lips. she'll come in less than a minute. and I have to back off. wait 3-5 seconds and go again. she comes when I lick the clit, or suck the lips, or stick my tongue in the vagina, and even when I rim her. I'll do this for about 5 orgasms because by that time she's begging for penetration. point is that pleasing her is different from pleasing my ex.
my ex doesn't come often. and I mean only about once a month if lucky. her clit isn't as sensitive. but when she does cum, she comes long and hard. powerful. but thats after about 15 minutes of eating her out.
woman are very different from each other quite often. if you're eating out a one night stand? good luck. you might get or you might not. if its someone you'll be getting to know well, then you both have to get comfortable enough to talk about it sometimes and to enjoy it without pressure from either side. if a woman doesn't know how to easily get her self to orgasm, then chances are that she will be the one that requires more time and experimentation. and don't blame her. sex is something that gets so much easier and enjoyable as we continue to do it.
there are different things to do to a vagina and clit for her enjoyment. but it takes time and trust to know who likes to be bit, who likes it direct, etc
you both have to understand that you both need to learn about each other, before ultimate sex is conquered
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