yeah, poison, you are definitely right. we've been married for some years already. On the one hand, cyber sex can become a form of cheating if it is taken too far. But on the other hand, it can be a good tool in expressing fantasies one could not physically do in real life. For example, a handicapped person...

I'm not really a chatter. I've tried several times, but I like games like quake3 :) you know, first person shooters... however most of my girl-friends were fond of those chats... first I was very irritated at what they were doing. But then I thought that there was nothing wrong with this... just chatting with some guy in virtual world and that's all. It is NOT real like me killing virtual monsters. At that point I stopped worrying about it.

I tried cybersex some day ago. It didn't appear to be sexual. I'm very disappointed :(

for some people cybersex is a big turn-on, which they can turn into addiction. for others cybersex is a good distraction from problems in real life. as for me, I prefer real relations and feelings.

it can be fun,with the right person.and beneficial to a married, ignored person.i helped such a person on line,and,now we are great friends!

I don't like chat interfere with my real life. I like chatting only when I'm extremely bored and have nothing to do at the moment. so chats gimme just relaxation...

I'm glad so many people think that cybersex is a great thing... I just want to warn people that not everyone plays it in an honest way.